Questions worth asking.
The 36 questions to fall in love
The full Arthur Aron list — all 36 questions, grouped into Aron's three sets, with notes from six years of using them.
Team offsite conversation starters (that aren't icebreakers)
Real questions for team offsites and 1:1s — past the trust falls and forced fun. Questions that actually help people know each other better.
Group hang conversation starters
Questions for groups of friends — the kind that make a dinner worth remembering. Not icebreakers. Real questions.
Family dinner conversation starters
Questions for the family dinner table — appropriate for all ages, interesting enough for adults, and good at cutting through the noise of a big gathering.
Monthly relationship check-in questions
A structured set of questions for couples who want to check in with each other once a month. Not therapy — just a conversation with some direction.
Values-aligned questions for dates 3–5
Not compatibility tests — questions for the phase of dating where you want to find out if someone's values actually align with yours.