Dates three to five are where you start finding out if there's actually something here.

The first couple of dates are about chemistry. By date three, you know you like each other. The question becomes: do you want the same things?

Eight questions worth asking

1. What does a really good week look like for you?
2. What's something you do regularly that you'd never give up?
3. What's your relationship with your family like?
4. What's something you care about more than most people around you?
5. What's something you've stopped caring about that used to seem important?
6. What do you think makes a relationship work?
7. What are you building toward in the next few years?
8. What's something you're still figuring out?

More questions in the app

GoDeeper's Early Dating deck has questions for this exact phase — calibrated for the point where curiosity turns into something more deliberate.

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