A monthly check-in isn't a relationship audit. It's a conversation with some direction.

These questions are meant to be pulled out once a month — not as a performance review, but as a way to stay in contact with how each other is actually doing.

Eight to start with

1. What's something that went well for us this month that we didn't fully acknowledge?
2. When did we feel closest to each other?
3. When did we feel furthest apart?
4. What's something I did that you really appreciated?
5. What's something you needed from me that I didn't quite give you?
6. What's taking up the most space in your head right now?
7. What do you need more of going into next month?
8. What's something you want us to do together that we haven't yet?

The full deck is in the app

GoDeeper's Couples deck has check-in questions across all four depth levels — from light weekly prompts to the harder conversations you keep almost having.

Pull one card. Read it out loud. See where it goes.

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